If you have a friend or loved one who quilts, and you would one day like to be the recipient of a lovely cherished heirloom, don’t ever ask them any of the following questions. You may never get a quilt.
1. “Why would you want to cut up perfectly good fabric just so you can sew it all back together again in another big piece? What was wrong with it to begin with?”
My dear husband asked me this when I first started quilting. At the time, I didn’t really have a good answer for him because in some sense, his logical engineering brain came up with a good point. If I recall correctly, I just stared him down. He hasn’t asked that again. Apparently he likes all the quilts around the house.
2. “You know that quilt you gave me? The cats love it. I can’t get them off of it! It’s their favorite place to sleep.”
The person who says this gets permanently removed from your quilting gift list.
3. “Is that supposed to look like that?”
This is a question that has different responses depending on who asks it. If it’s a really good quilting buddy who asks it, you can safely assume whatever “it” is, looks like crap and needs fixing. If it’s a non-quilter, you can safely assume they are lame and have no idea what they are looking at/talking about anyway. You’re quilt is fine. Nod your head, smile, say “yes, it is supposed to look like that, thanks.” Move ahead and consider scratching them from your quilting gift list as well.
4. “I needed to wrap a package and couldn’t find any scissors so I just grabbed those ones out of your sewing room to cut all the wrapping paper. Don’t my presents look great?”
This generally comes from a loved one who must be temporarily (or possibly permanently) banned from the sewing area. See my post “Scissor Slut” for more on the sacred status of scissors.
5. “Did you ever finish that one quilt you started a long time ago that you were telling me about?”
I work on quilts based on whatever I feel like working on; hence, my giant pile of unfinished projects. As a result, this is another one with two potential responses. If it’s done, you say, “Yes, I did. I gave it to _____________. If I’d have known you loved it so much, I would have given it to you! Bummer.” Or, if it’s not done, you say, “Nope. I got sick of it. Hope you weren’t planning on snuggling up in it anytime soon.”
6. “Why do you need more fabric? Don’t you have enough?”
Only husbands (or at least the person you share a checking account with) asks this question. It is not worthy of an answer, merely another stare down. If my husband asks twice, I just have to ask if he really needs another gun. He’s an avid hunter, and I think one or two guns would kill whatever he’s hunting just fine, but what do I know? Since this question generally silences him on the amount of fabric I need, I would say that I clearly don’t know much about guns or hunting. In fact, I know guns like he knows fabric. ‘Nuff said.
7. “How long are you going to take at the quilt shop?”
Another question from the love of my life. My answer? It could be hours buddy. You better just drop me off and leave. . . . Love you!